Is a dance partner necessary for ballroom dance lessons?

 

by Matt Barber Author, Columnist, and Dance Professional

Do I have to have a dance partner in order to take ballroom dance lessons? Absolutely not! Believe it or not, this is one of the most frequent of the frequently asked questions I get, and usually, it’s asked by a married person! For the record, even if You are married, it is almost always easier to learn how to ballroom dance initially by taking private dance lessons one-on-one (You learning dance by dancing with a dance instructor on Your private lessons) than by taking lessons as a couple (You learning to dance with a student partner on Your private lessons as a dance teacher watches).

Oh, and if You happen to be a single ballroom dance student, don’t fret, as the majority of most dance school’s student bodies are single as well. But remember, even if You happen to snag a “hottie” for a dance, social dancing etiquette dictates – usually even if You are married – that we switch dance partners after every song at a party!

So… what have we learned here???

No more excuses!!! Whether You have a partner who doesn’t want to dance or You don’t foresee having one who does in Your immediate future, it’s time to hit the boards dancing!

About the Writer:

Matt Barber, author of Beginning Ballroom: Why’s, Do’s, Don’ts, and Shoes, first encountered ballroom dancing as choreographed routines onstage for musicals and began ballroom lessons in high school. At eighteen, Matt started training to be an instructor with National Dance Clubs as a side job in college; he went on to teach in the independent world, for Arthur Murray International, and for Fred Astaire Dance Studios. At the same time, Matt graduated from the American Musical and Dramatic Academy in Manhattan and acquired an SB from Fordham University, his MS, and his business management and leadership training from Notre Dame’s Mendoza College of Business.

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Can a “musical moron” learn how to ballroom dance?

by Matt Barber  Author, Columnist, and Dance Professional

Is it really possible for a “musical moron” to learn how to ballroom  dance? Allow me to start off with an emphatic: YES! Anybody can learn how to ballroom dance!

I, Yours Truly, Matt Barber, won a dance competition the year before I failed an introductory music class. If this musical moron can learn how to ballroom dance, then You can learn how to ballroom dance, too!

When I first started learning how to ballroom dance, I knew absolutely nothing about music, beats, bars, etc. In fact, at least one of my ballroom dance partners would argue a decade later, I still knew nothing about music! Regardless, my music knowledge, or lack thereof, never prohibited me from achieving quite a few remarkable dancing goals in my dance journey, and it shouldn’t stop You from taking Your ballroom dance lessons either!

I am of the sincere belief that there is very little about music that one absolutely needs to know in the beginning of his or her dance journey. In the beginning, learning the dance steps and the dance culture, via private lessons, group classes, and (shameless plug) Beginning Ballroom: Why’s, Do’s, Don’ts, and Shoes, is more than enough to fill one’s plate. It sounds awful, but the necessary information about music only seems to get added into the private lessons on a need-to-know basis. Trust that Your instructors know what they’re doing and that they will make sure You are introduced to everything You need to know, when You need to know it.

Thus, my advice is simple: don’t worry about what You don’t know, and practice hard the things You’ve been introduced to. It will all come together in time. So relax and enjoy the process!

About the Writer:

Matt Barber, author of Beginning Ballroom: Why’s, Do’s, Don’ts, and Shoes, first encountered ballroom dancing as choreographed routines onstage for musicals and began ballroom lessons in high school. At eighteen, Matt started training to be an instructor with National Dance Clubs as a side job in college; he went on to teach in the independent world, for Arthur Murray International, and for Fred Astaire Dance Studios.  At the same time, Matt graduated from the American Musical and Dramatic Academy in Manhattan and acquired an SB from Fordham University, his MS, and his business management and leadership training from Notre Dame’s Mendoza College of Business.

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Do I really have to have a dancing goal?

 

 

 by Matt Barber  

Author, Columnist, and Dance Professional

Okay, Dear Ballroom Dance Students, here’s the deal: You do not have to compete, You do not have to perform in a showcase, You do not have to participate in a dance exhibition, but You do have to have a dancing goal. Of course, that dancing goal could easily be a dance competition, a staged showcase, or a simple in-house exhibition, but it could also be just as basic as graduating out of a dance level. Unfortunately, I see ballroom dance students all too often simply meander through the dance world, and if they do it long enough, those aimless drifters end up wondering why everyone else keeps passing them in their dancing abilities on the floor. Suffice it to say, little goals go a long way, so get with Your instructor and get Your dancing goals today! 

 

About the Writer:

 

Matt Barber, author of Beginning Ballroom: Why’s, Do’s, Don’ts, and Shoes, first encountered ballroom dancing as choreographed routines onstage for musicals and began ballroom lessons in high school. At eighteen, Matt started training to be an instructor with National Dance Clubs as a side job in college; he went on to teach in the independent world, for Arthur Murray International, and for Fred Astaire Dance Studios.  At the same time, Matt graduated from the American Musical and Dramatic Academy in Manhattan and acquired an SB from Fordham University, his MS, and his business management and leadership training from Notre Dame’s Mendoza College of Business.

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How Much Time Should I Spend Practicing Ballroom Dance?

by Matt Barber  Author, Columnist, and Dance Professional

You’d be surprised as to what counts as ballroom dance practice! At the supermarket, my advanced ballroom students should be working on brushing their legs, taking heel leads, and releasing their heels while they push their carts around the store. In the checkout line, those same dance students should be working on calf raises. In the car on the way home, my dance students should be listening to music, counting beats, and “hearing the dances.” When my dance students talk on the phone, it’s Cuban motion time! When those dance students surf the Internet later, they should check out a ballroom dance championship or two. You get the idea…

 

All that said, there is no right time limit for ballroom dance practice; in fact, it’s not about time at all. The key is simply that You do something to practice Your ballroom dancing. The more You practice dancing, the more You’ll get out of Your dance lessons; the more You get out of Your dance lessons, the more You’ll want to practice ballroom dancing. It’s a vicious but rewarding cycle!

 

 

About the Writer:

 

Matt Barber, author of Beginning Ballroom: Why’s, Do’s, Don’ts, and Shoes, first encountered ballroom dancing as choreographed routines onstage for musicals and began ballroom lessons in high school. At eighteen, Matt started training to be an instructor with National Dance Clubs as a side job in college; he went on to teach in the independent world, for Arthur Murray International, and for Fred Astaire Dance Studios.  At the same time, Matt graduated from the American Musical and Dramatic Academy in Manhattan and acquired an SB from Fordham University, his MS, and his business management and leadership training from Notre Dame’s Mendoza College of Business.

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Do I really need private lessons?

by Matt Barber  Author, Columnist, and Dance Professional

Do I really need private lessons? Can’t I learn just as much from group classes?  If You want to learn how to dance as opposed to simply moving around the floor, You need private lessons. Period. Group classes are great at teaching ballroom students how to execute a given dance step, but private lessons are great at teaching how that dance step should both look and feel. Ultimately, learning how to dance ballroom is a very aesthetic business; even if You don’t care about how a dance step looks or feels, I can guarantee the majority of Your social dance partners not only care, but care a lot!

The sad truth is that there is a real difference in the dancing abilities among those who take just group classes, those who take just private lessons, and those who do both. Taking both private lessons and group classes is ideal, taking just private lessons is okay to an extent, but taking just group classes is, well, a couple steps below ideal. If You really want to stand behind taking just group classes, just know that everyone else can immediately tell You’re taking just group classes. If group classes are all You can do financially, then, yes, stick to group classes, we all understand; but if You’re just holding out to hold out, then it’s time to come in from the cold. Take a private lesson or fifty; You and Your partners will be glad You did!

About the Writer: 

Matt Barber, author of Beginning Ballroom: Why’s, Do’s, Don’ts, and Shoes, first encountered ballroom dancing as choreographed routines onstage for musicals and began ballroom lessons in high school. At eighteen, Matt started training to be an instructor with National Dance Clubs as a side job in college; he went on to teach in the independent world, for Arthur Murray International, and for Fred Astaire Dance Studios.  At the same time, Matt graduated from the American Musical and Dramatic Academy in Manhattan and acquired an SB from Fordham University, his MS, and his business management and leadership training from Notre Dame’s Mendoza College of Business.

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Do I Really Need Ballroom Dance Shoes?

A Must-Read for Dancers of All Levels!

 

by Matt Barber  

Author, Columnist, and Dance Professional

 Yes, Dear Dance Students, You absolutely need to have ballroom dance shoes even when You’re just casually learning how to dance at Your local dance studio or dance school! People naturally bowl in bowling shoes, play basketball in basketball shoes, and dance in dance shoes. You wouldn’t bowl in basketball shoes or play basketball in bowling shoes, would You?! No! Why not?! Those shoes are not only stylish, but they’re practical as well. Well, the same holds true of dance shoes; however, the tricky thing about dance shoes is that from the top, dance shoes can look so much like regular dress shoes instead of the dance shoes that they are. From the inside and from the bottom, however, dance shoes are creatures unto themselves. For instance, most dance shoes have metal shanks and suede bottoms; can Your dress shoes say that?! Get the dance shoes . . . You’ll never go back.

About the Writer: 

Matt Barber, author of Beginning Ballroom: Why’s, Do’s, Don’ts, and Shoes, first encountered ballroom dancing as choreographed routines onstage for musicals and began ballroom lessons in high school. At eighteen, Matt started training to be an instructor with National Dance Clubs as a side job in college; he went on to teach in the independent world, for Arthur Murray International, and for Fred Astaire Dance Studios.  At the same time, Matt graduated from the American Musical and Dramatic Academy in Manhattan and acquired an SB from Fordham University, his MS, and his business management and leadership training from Notre Dame’s Mendoza College of Business.

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About “Ballroom Books”

Ballroom Books: From Beginning Ballroom to Advanced… What Two (Million) Left Feet Recommend!  is a brand new site that is dedicated to the concerns of ballroom students of all dance studios and dance schools: franchised, independent, DanceSport, etc. Dance professionals, dance teachers, ballroom industry insiders, and authors are partnering with Ballroom Books to bring You the answers to the questions You’ve always wanted to ask… You know, not the ones about the dance steps (You can keep learning to dance at Your dance studio), but about the juicy stuff like why do private lessons really cost so much?! (Try asking that one at Your local dance school!) Please feel free to comment, ask Your questions, and post Your responses. Ballroom Books is constantly loading new content often so check back often!

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Independent Dance Studios v. Franchised Dance Schools

by Matt Barber  Author, Columnist, and Dance Professional

 I get asked all the time, “Which is the better option: independent dance studios or franchised dance schools?” Admittedly, I have a unique perspective, as I have, indeed, taught both in the independent dance studios and for the franchised dance schools. The answer, unfortunately, is: it depends on what the student is looking for.

 As I mention in my book, Beginning Ballroom: Why’s, Do’s, Don’ts, and Shoes, to listen to some people talk, one would think that there’s a huge war going on between independent studios and franchised dance schools. Of course, that’s not quite true as independent dance studios are independent not only of franchised dance schools, but they are also independent of each other.

 On the whole, Joe Blow’s Dance Studio in Small Town, America, is not exactly going to be able to compete with the large franchised dance schools which can cater to both national and international markets. In fact, ol’ Joe Blow himself is probably much more concerned with another independent dance studio down the street for his share of the local dance market than he is with one of the big dance school chains. Every now and then the dance studio down the street just happens to be a franchised dance school, but even then, Joe Blow is competing only with that one dance school, not the entire chain.

Simply put, independent studios are not connected to any large chain of dance schools nor are they connected to each other; they are independently owned and operated and do not have a separate corporate body. On the other hand, franchised dance schools are just that; they represent large studio chains that do have a corporate office, a standardized dance syllabus, and lots of rules and regulations; generally such things are seen as positives, though, as they represent a set way of doing business, a general procedure for learning how to dance, and there is a general acceptance that the rules and regulations are in place for good reasons. What most people miss, however, is the fact that these larger chains are franchised, that is to say, the studios themselves are owned and operated by a single person or couple just as most independent studios are.

 Of course, there are classic arguments for and against independent studios and franchised schools; however, from my experience in each, they tend to cater to different clientele almost entirely. The biggest noticeable difference between the two comes in their dance competitions. Independent studios, as there is no general agreed-upon dance syllabus, tend to have very interesting competitions to watch. Franchised schools, though, tend to have more fair competitions as every competitor is usually restricted to the same steps as everyone else, and the dance levels are very specifically defined.

Basically, when You’re enjoying Yourself out on the town, my advice is this: don’t listen to the talk about independent versus franchised, most of it is not true anyway. Stay with the studio You’re comfortable with.

About the Writer: 

Matt Barber, author of Beginning Ballroom: Why’s, Do’s, Don’ts, and Shoes, first encountered ballroom dancing as choreographed routines onstage for musicals and began ballroom lessons in high school. At eighteen, Matt started training to be an instructor with National Dance Clubs as a side job in college; he went on to teach in the independent world, for Arthur Murray International, and for Fred Astaire Dance Studios.  At the same time, Matt graduated from the American Musical and Dramatic Academy in Manhattan and acquired an SB from Fordham University, his MS, and his business management and leadership training from Notre Dame’s Mendoza College of Business.

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New Ballroom Book Coming June 2011

                                                         Here it is! The book You’ve been looking for!

A Must-Read for Dancers of All Levels!

Beginning Ballroom: Why’s, Do’s, Don’ts, and Shoes by Matt Barber is the user manual for all those who want to get the most out of their ballroom dance lessons. Whether You’re curious about the ballroom culture, the history of the dances, how to practice, how competitions work, or just what all this talk of rhythm and smooth is all about, Beginning Ballroom explains it all without teaching a single step. If You’re a ballroom student of any level, Beginning Ballroom is required reading!

Matt Barber first encountered ballroom dancing as choreographed routines onstage for musicals and began ballroom lessons in high school. At eighteen, Matt started training to be an instructor with National Dance Clubs as a side job in college; he went on to teach in the independent world, for Arthur Murray International, and for Fred Astaire Dance Studios. At the same time, Matt graduated from the American Musical and Dramatic Academy in Manhattan and acquired an SB from Fordham University, his MS, and his business and leadership training from Notre Dame’s Mendoza College of Business.

Matt Barber, Author and Dance Professional

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


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